Do you ever wish you could go back to a simpler time? A time when you didn't have so many questions and doubts? A time when 'believing' was easy?
I get that desire.
I spent over twenty-five years as a pastor's wife before I found myself outside the church asking a lot of big questions. The most difficult one was,
"How do I evolve in my spirituality with integrity?
Anyone who has been in a spiritual crisis knows it is not easy to sort these things out. There are issues of shame, emotional pain, guilt and a crisis of integrity just to name a few areas of struggle!
Are you afraid that you will hurt the people and institutions you once cared about? And at the same time do you feel like you just can't keep pretending?
It took me close to seven years to really get to a place where I felt whole again.
I hid in the corporate world where I could use my skills in leadership development and adult education in a context where questions about faith and belief were not part of the curriculum. And I continued to sort out my own beliefs in the context of spiritual direction, therapy and lots of Happy Hour gatherings with friends.
It was a long and winding road and I am in a place in my life now where I feel ready to help other women who are on a similar journey. And I know there are many of you. I meet you all the time.
I am in the midst of creating an online program to help you work through some of these challenges.
This program will help you:
- Identify beliefs that are causing you sufferings
- Heal from trauma from religious experiences
- Connect to your authentic self
I am also working on a workbook and audio recording available for download. Make sure you are on my mailing list to find out when this launches.
And if you need help sooner - get in touch. We can do some 1:1 coaching around the areas that are of greatest need right now.
And...if you can help:
I create content, share resources and help women who have become entangled in religous systems and other places that are keeping them from living authentic lives. I'm looking for women who want to support me in this process. You can find out more here: